[polldaddy poll=8271149] Perhaps the most amusing part of throwing outlandish birthdays for our children is that we openly complain about the majesty of it all to any adults within earshot throughout the course of the event.
"Can you believe we do this?" we will ask one another. "Back in our day..."
Indeed, back in our day...
Birthdays are, of course, awesome as kids, no matter how titanic or low-key the party.
Cake. Gifts. Friends. Games. I mean, come on, it's built in fun.
My most memorable birthday as a child was the surprise I had when my mom drove me to one of the greatest places, at the time, a kid could get lucky enough to enjoy - Showbiz Pizza Place. Inside were a dozen of my best friends, my siblings and family. Oh, and wall-to-wall video games (this was the 80s so it was nonstop Mrs. Pac-Man, Moon Patrol and Donkey Kong for me), pizza and those creepy bears and other assorted animals that played in a band behind the curtain.
As an adult, now, we seemingly look for the most outrageous ways to say "happy birthday" to our children. And maybe outrageous isn't the correct word. Certainly, though, we can agree that our parents and grandparents are most likely snickering at the massive events we are throwing today.
Addy loves a good birthday party. And a good wedding. She's like her dad in that regard.
In the last few weeks, she's been fortunate enough to be invited to a "princess party" for a friend's daughter and a 1-year old extravaganza out at Legacy Park in Lee's Summit.
The princess party, if I can look at that through the eyes of the 4-, 5-, 6-year olds, had to have been just spectacular to them. The fact that you can "rent" princesses is something that I chalked up to "things John didn't know." But these two ladies had captivated the room the entire time, telling stories, doing activities and giving the little girls makeovers.
Since the 1-year old wasn't quite ready for that, the party at the park was a little more subdued, if not outright fun, still. These parents opted to entertain the adults as well as the kids, offering food and drinks and the built-in bonus of having right there in a park.
When Addy turned 2, we hit up the birthday party wonderland, Paradise Park, for that occasion.
At 3, it was a bouncy castle in my backyard and catered food from Hy-Vee East in Lee's Summit.
Just around the corner now is 4. I am sure Addy's mom has some fun plans up her sleeve. And it will probably involve ponies.
I am certainly not bemoaning the new world of birthdays and kiddos. I am sure this isn't a fad that just started a few years ago. It's just all over my radar now with a child of my own.
I told Addy recently that one of her birthdays was just going to be cake and games at the house.
She asked, "Can my friends come?"
A gentle reminder about what really matters most to them.